Violence And Pregnancy
Most women would hope that during pregnancy they would not suffer domestic violence, unfortunately for some this is when domestic violence starts, or even escalates. With the Home Office reports stating that one woman dies every three days as a result of domestic violence the problem is real and growing.
A study in March 2003 of 500 women conducted by the British Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, discovered that one in six of them had experienced violence in pregnancy.
Potential Risks
The potential risks to both mother and unborn child are high as the abuser will normally focus their attacks on the breast, genitals and abdomen areas, which can lead to miscarriage, haemorrhage, premature labour, still births and low weight babies.
Many women find that they are likely to turn to alcohol, cigarettes and drugs. They may suffer with anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts and might not turn up for their antenatal appointments. This can lead to the midwives taking care of them to assume that they are bad mothers.
Although that view is changing, as more and more midwives are now trained in supporting women who maybe experiencing domestic violence.
Why Do Men Abuse?
There is a variety of reasons as to why a man chooses to abuse his partner, but the most common factor seems to be low self esteem and a need for control.
During pregnancy the man may experience jealousy towards the unborn child as the mothers focus will be on the child rather than her partner. Or they might feel this is an ideal opportunity as the woman cannot get away and is more reliant on them.
Can It Happen To Anyone?
Yes. Unfortunately abuse is not restricted by race, money or social background.
Where Can You Go For Help?
You can speak to your midwife or alternatively there is a 24 hour freephone number for advice run by the Women’s Aid and Refuge: Their number is 0808 200 0247.
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